It would be ideal if we could combine the electronic devices that have now become children's favorite toys with more traditional games and games played in the open air. They should be playing board games like Ludo, or be out on their skateboards, roller-skates or bikes. They should visit the countryside for the sake of balance. Only then, perhaps, should they be allowed a bit of screen time. Once children become accustomed to getting enjoyment from a screen, they're going to need more and more stimuli to achieve the same effect, which could be damaging. This means they're going to be exposed to stimuli for long periods of time and will therefore lose interest in nature activities, which are experienced at a much slower pace.
It's very important for parents to spend time playing with their children. We know that the benefits of playing include developing creativity and psychomotor skills. However, as a parent you'll also benefit from interacting with your kids because when you play with them you may become the best version of yourself. You might be you at your kindest. Also, they get to see you when you're relaxed and enjoying some free time. Parents often spend a lot of time teaching their kids values like empathy, the difference between good and bad, patience, knowing how to lose, etc. Games are a wonderful way to share and help children understand these concepts without coercion or lectures.
It is harmful for children to use screens too much because sometimes it's difficult for them to achieve a balance between their online and offline lives. It can be very enriching to use technology appropriately. The problem is that, sometimes, children use technology in order to retreat from the world. What happens then is that they start to build a fragmented identity Why? because they're exposing themselves to the world, but also hiding behind a mask. On the Internet you can be who you want to be, which may lead to self-deceit. You can exaggerate your best traits and interact with people in a certain way, which could make you vulnerable. This means that, ultimately, a child's self-esteem has no solid basis, but can be adapted depending on the situation they're in. Their sense of worth also depends on what they publish and how many "likes" they get. They're continually looking for this feedback in order to feel valued and accepted, which is very important to pre-teens and teenagers. It can be dangerous for children not to have a clear idea of who they are and to have not formed a more unified identity. If they form relationships with people through the Internet who they have no real connection to, they can disengage from them in the blink of any eye. They can just decide that they don't want to be friends with someone anymore, and that's that. When they see people in real life, in the classroom or at playtime, they can't just ignore them completely, they have to learn to coexist. What's happening is that children are becoming less able to deal with frustration and conflict and are becoming more aggressive because they don't know how to deal with the fact that the other person exists and that they have to find a way to exist in the same environment as them.
Is it possible to control a child's anger? First and foremost, children have to be able to understand their emotions. However, sometimes we don't let them. Sometimes we chastise them for getting angry or having moments of rage. Yet, we all get angry sometimes. Just like we all experience sadness and joy. Also, it seems as though society is more accepting of anger than sadness because anger reaffirms who you are and makes you feel empowered, whereas sadness leads to depression.